Bouquet Etiquette: What to Give for Apology, Romance, or Birthday

Bouquet Etiquette: What to Give for Apology, Romance, or Birthday

Flowers have long been a language of their own. Whether you're saying "I'm sorry," expressing deep affection, or celebrating someone’s special day, choosing the right bouquet is a meaningful gesture. Here’s a simple guide to bouquet etiquette for three of life’s most emotion-filled occasions:

For an Apology: Say “I’m Sorry” with Grace

Sincerity and thoughtfulness matter most in an apology bouquet. Choose soft, soothing colors like whites, pastels, or soft blues.

Recommended Flowers:

  • White tulips: Sincerity and forgiveness

  • Blue hydrangeas: Understanding and empathy

  • Orchids: Respect and delicate beauty

Pro tip: Include a handwritten note. A few heartfelt words can deepen the emotional impact.

Recommended Bouquets:

  • Rosée du Matin: A tender blend of white and blush roses with soft pink carnations, symbolizing purity and affection.

A romantic pastel bouquet composed of white and blush pink roses, pale carnations, and delicate greenery, wrapped in soft pink paper and tied with a Maison d’Fleur ribbon, displayed on a marble surface with a black background.

  • Phoenix en Fleur: Elegant roses in soft hues, perfect for expressing sincere apologies and new beginnings.

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For Romance: Speak from the Heart

When love is in the air, let your bouquet reflect it. Romantic flowers are all about richness in color and sensual textures.

Recommended Flowers:

  • Red roses: Classic passion

  • Pink garden roses: Soft admiration

  • Peonies: Romance and prosperity

  • Calla lilies: Elegant love and commitment

Pro tip: Ask us about long-stemmed arrangements — they create visual drama and timeless appeal.

Recommended Bouquets:

  • Éternel Amour: A luxurious arrangement of 75 red roses, embodying deep passion and enduring love.

  • Romantique Antike: Vintage garden roses in dusky pink tones, offering a timeless romantic gesture.

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  • Champagne Dreams: Delicate garden spray roses in soft champagne hues, perfect for expressing refined affection.

For Birthdays: Celebrate with Joy

Birthday blooms should be bright, festive, and full of personality — just like the person you're celebrating.

Recommended Flowers:

  • Gerbera daisies: Cheer and happiness

  • Sunflowers: Positivity and strength

  • Mixed seasonal bouquets: Personalized and joyful

  • Lilies: Joy and friendship

Pro tip: Add a pop of personalization — we can incorporate their birth month flower or favorite colors.

Recommended Bouquets:

  • Jardin de Lune: A vibrant mix of ranunculus, garden roses, and seasonal blooms, capturing the essence of celebration.

Maison d’Fleur luxury bouquet with roses, stock, and ranunculus in mint wrap

  • Château de Miel: Blush pink roses paired with chamomile, exuding charm and warmth for a special birthday.

Blush pink rose bouquet with chamomile daisies in kraft paper wrap – Maison d’Fleur Charlotte NC

  • Jardin de Rêves: An ethereal arrangement of garden roses, anemones, and lilac, perfect for marking memorable milestones.

Every arrangement we create is designed with emotion, elegance, and intentionality. Whether it’s regret, love, or celebration, we’ll help you express it beautifully.

Order today or consult with our floral designers for a custom bouquet that speaks louder than words.

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